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He Knew He Was Right
is not merely the title of the book, nor the defining factor in the main plot:
it could rightfully be considered to be the underlying theme of Trollope’s
treatment of each of the characters and of all the myriad subplots. Everyone is
sure that he or she is right. Trollope could have made the book about
stubbornness and preached against a strong nature. He also could have done the
typical Victorian thing, and punished the assertive women while rewarding those
with a meek spirit. Instead, Trollope’s loyalty lies with the truth. Each
character must confront the question of whether his or her cherished views are
true or false.
It is difficult to know exactly where to begin with this
length and complex book. At around 800 pages of fairly small print, it is epic,
even for Trollope, who is hardly known for his brevity. Perhaps I should start
with the author himself.
Anthony Trollope is one of my favorite authors for a number
of reasons. He was formerly one of the more popular Victorian novelists, but
made the ill-advised choice to write an autobiography. In said autobiography,
he admitted that he set aside a certain amount of time each day to write, and
made himself write a certain number of words. This did not jive with the idea
of the author as inspired genius, writing as the spirit led him, so his
reputation suffered.
I find Trollope to be more subtle in his characterizations
than his contemporaries, Dickens and Collins. Rarely do even his minor
characters become “types,” and his books rarely contain true villains. Even
those who exist, such as the unforgettable Obadiah Slope are complex
characters, who seem psychologically true to life, even though they populate a
world foreign to a modern American reader. He
Knew He Was Right is no exception, being full of realistically drawn
characters.
The main plot of the book revolves around Louis Trevelyan
and his wife Emily. Even before the marriage, there are signs of future trouble.
Louis likes to have his way. His future father-in-law, Sir Marmaduke notes
that, “his way is such a good way,” but his wife realizes that, “Emily likes
her way too.”
The trouble begins when the rakish Colonel Osborne attempts
a not-so-innocent-on-his-part flirtation with Emily, who is half his age. Louis
demands that she cut off contact with him. She protests that he is unfairly
accusing her of unfaithfulness. In this way, the conflict is not one primarily
of behavior, but of ego. Emily will not admit any fault, and Louis will not
admit to wrongfully suspecting her. This feud grows all out of proportion until
it results in a prolonged separation and the use of the couple’s child as a
pawn in a battle of wills which consumes the parties and destroys their
happiness. Of this plot, I will have more to say later.
Meanwhile, a number of subplots are developed. Emily’s
younger sister, Nora, falls in love with Hugh Stanbury, a gentleman who is
forced to earn his own living due to financial circumstances. Hugh’s sister
Dorothy goes to live with her Aunt, Jemima Stanbury; who is an epically strong
willed and stubborn old lady, in the vein of Miss Havisham, perhaps, in her
manipulation and bitterness, but less crazy, and still capable of kindness on
rare occasions. Dorothy’s mother and sister are called upon to share a house
with Emily after she is banished from her husband’s presence. The French girls,
Camilla and Arabella, fight over the hand of Mr. Gibson, who wishes to marry
Dorothy.
Each character has the opportunity to display a stubborn
commitment to his or her values and preferences. Louis, of course, wishes for
his wife to admit fault. Emily likewise desires to be acquitted of the
accusation of unfaithfulness. Dorothy, who is rather mild mannered at the
outset, has no desire to marry Mr. Gibson. Nora and Hugh must defy the wishes
of her parents in order to court each other. Miss Stanbury continues her feud
with the family of her late beau, who left her his fortune at their expense.
Arabella and Camilla French both wish to be married and to dominate the other.
And on it goes.
Nora’s case is particularly interesting because she is
offered the hand of Mr. Glascock, the future Lord Peterborough. Glascock is one
of the truly admirable men in the book. (Hugh Stanbury is the other.) After
making a rather kind and affectionate proposal and being refused, he acts as
graciously as possible. Later in the book, he goes far out of his way on behalf
of Nora and Emily, despite no duty to do so. In every respect, he is a true
gentleman, and one that most girls would be eager to marry. However, there is
no chemistry between him and Nora, perhaps on account of the difference in age,
or perhaps because of temperament. Mostly, however, it is because Nora loves
Hugh.
Hugh is also a worthy man, but in a different way. He knows
that he will never inherit wealth, so he chooses to use his talents writing for
a newspaper – something which horrifies his aunt Jemima. He has a world-wise
and jaunty air, and puts a good face on his lack of a fixed income. He is,
moreover, kind to his sisters and mother, and also takes action at personal
expense to assist Emily. As Nora recognizes, there are tradeoffs in making this
choice. She chooses love over money, but Trollope allows her to truly understand
the factors on both sides.
As usual, there are too many quotable passages to choose
from. Trollope’s extended description of Louis and Emily while they are not
speaking to each other is brilliant, as is his use of repetition to show Louis’
obsession as his mind slowly crumbles. Indeed, this continual and recurring
internal discussion was disconcertingly familiar to one like me who tends to
spend time thinking things through. As Trollope puts it near the end, “Thought
deep, correct, continued, and energetic is quite compatible with madness.”
Perhaps the line between a reflective introvert and a madman is not so broad as
could be hoped.
In this book, Trollope also questions some of the orthodoxy
of the Victorian Era (and previous eras) regarding the role of women. Nora,
while realizing that she did not love Mr. Glascock, laments to herself that,
“The lot of a woman, as she often told herself, was wretched, unfortunate,
almost degrading. For a woman such as herself there was no path open to her
energy, other than that of getting a husband.” Hugh makes a perfect potential
match with her. In a discussion with Louis Trevelyan, he notes that women do
not like being “looked after.” “[I]f I were married, - which I never shall be,
for I shall never attain to the respectability of a fixed income, - I fancy I
shouldn’t look after my wife at all. It seems to me that women hate to be told
about their duties.” I might add that men don’t fancy it much either, but this
was less of an issue 150 years ago, I suspect.
Hugh may be flippant in his speech, but he is fiercely loyal
to Nora. He stands up to his future father-in-law, who thinks him too poor: “And
I, Sir Marmaduke, have been brought up in the idea that when a man has won the
affections of a woman, it is the duty of that man, - as a man, - to stick to
her through thick and thin; and I mean to do my duty, according to my idea.”
Trollope has the ability to slip little self-effacing asides
into the narrative. “Who would ever think of learning to live out of an English
novel?” Or, his subtle dig at the conventions of the novel: “It was for the
welfare of England
at large that the eldest sons of good families should marry the sweetest,
prettiest, brightest, and most loveable girls of their age. It is a doctrine on
behalf of which very much may be said.”
I also love the extended riff on the ending of books in a
marriage.
We must now go back to Exeter and look after Mr. Brooke Burgess and
Miss Dorothy Stanbury. It is rather hard upon readers that they should be thus
hurried from the completion of hymeneals at Florence
to the preparations for other hymeneals in Devonshire;
but it is the nature of a complex story to be entangled with many weddings
towards its close. In this little history there are, we fear, three or four
more to come. We will not anticipate by alluding prematurely to Hugh Stanbury's
treachery, or death, or the possibility that he after all may turn out to be
the real descendant of the true Lord Peterborough and the actual inheritor of
the title and estate of Monkhams, nor will we speak of Nora's certain fortitude
under either of these emergencies. But the instructed reader must be aware that
Camilla French ought to have a husband found for her; that Colonel Osborne
should be caught in some matrimonial trap, as how otherwise should he be fitly
punished? And that something should be at least attempted for Priscilla
Stanbury, who from the first has been intended to be the real heroine of these
pages. That Martha should marry Giles Hickbody, and Barty Burgess run away with
Mrs. MacHugh, is of course evident to the meanest novel-expounding capacity;
but the fate of Brooke Burgess and of Dorothy will require to be evolved with
some delicacy and much detail.
Of course, much of what he alludes to here does not come to
pass – he is only messing with the reader.
As a final dig at English tradition, Mr. Glascock, after
having had an argument with Caroline Spaulding, the daughter of the American
diplomat (who he eventually marries), makes a tongue-in-cheek reference to the
infamous “rule of thumb” in the English common law. “Caroline and I have had a
little dispute, but we have settled it without coming to blows.”
Carolyn’s cousin, the feminist “poet” Wallachia
(one of the few caricatures – and a good one), retorts, “I don’ suppose that an
English gentleman ever absolutely strikes a lady.”
In his wonderful, self confidently wry manner, Glascock
replies, “Not except on strong provocation. In reference to wives, a stick is
allowed as big as your thumb.”
In another exchange with Caroline’s younger sister, who
opines in her “ugly American” way, “I’d sooner be senator from Massachusetts than be
the Queen of England.”
“So would I,” said Mr. Glascock. “I’m glad we can agree
about one thing.”
In general, I would say that Trollope does a better satire
of American manners than
Dickens. Trollope is more
gentle, and therefore more perceptive, in his approach. Dickens feels the need
to demonize the Americans, while Trollope’s darts are more true to the mark by
their very charity.
Even Wallachia, who is
obnoxious even by modern American standards, is given a few good lines.
Trollope eventually notes that, “The hope in regard to all such women, - the
hope entertained not by themselves, but by those that are solicitous for them,
- is that they will be cured at last by a husband and half-a-dozen children.”
Occasionally, I suspect that this is what my in-laws hoped would happen to my
wife. (She is much nicer than Wallachia, but
she would have had a hard time with Victorian Era English gender roles. Whether the kids and I have “cured” her is
debatable, of course.)
Jemima Stanbury is also another worthy character in this
book, and she gets some of the great lines. As a guy, I was a bit unfamiliar
with the idea of the chignon,
although my wife and other women presumably have an idea about this. Trollope
himself was no fan of the Victorian version of this hairdo, and pokes fun at it
later in the book. However, he cannot resist a little dig at Miss Stanbury.
Mr. Gibson and Arabella French. Illustration by Marcus Stone.
“She would talk of ‘those bandboxes which the sluts wear behind
their noddles;’ for Miss Stanbury allowed herself the use of much strong
language.” Unsurprisingly, the battle between the generations over styles has
been in existence as long as recorded history, and Trollope makes a
particularly effective satire of the desire that the younger generation dress
exactly as the older did.
That Trollope did not exactly wish to identify with Miss
Stanbury is made clear in a later incident involving the posting of a letter.
Anthony Trollope’s primary career was that of a postmaster, and writing was
originally a diversion for him. He was the inventor of the ubiquitous “pillar
box” – the curbside mail collection device. Miss Stanbury, along with many of
the older set, disapproved.
Miss Stanbury carried her letter all the
way to the chief post-office in the city, having no faith whatever in those
little subsidiary receiving houses which are established in different parts of
the city. As for the iron pillar boxes which had been erected of late years for
the receipt of letters, one of which--a most hateful thing to her--stood almost
close to her own hall door, she had not the faintest belief that any letter put
into one of them would ever reach its destination. She could not understand why people should
not walk with their letters to a respectable post-office instead of chucking
them into an iron stump as she called it out in the middle of the street with
nobody to look after it. Positive orders had been given that no letter from her
house should ever be put into the iron post.
Dorothy’s sister, Priscilla, is very like Miss Stanbury in
temperament, if not in opinions. The two, predictably, do not get along.
Trollope has an odd affection for Priscilla, even though she is clearly out of
place in Victorian society. She refuses to cater to the expectations of others,
and will not accept charity, even from those she loves. She also has a
delightfully witty tongue, which is why she is the one young female in the book
that I truly liked. Sure, Nora is strong in her way, but it is Priscilla that I
would marry, if I were placed in that world, despite her misgivings that she
would make a man miserable.
Her thoughts on “self esteem” are illustrative: “All that is
twopenny-halfpenny pride, which should be thrown to the winds. The more right
you have been hitherto, the better you can afford to go on being right. What is
it that we all live upon but self esteem? When we want praise, it is only
because praise enables us to think well of ourselves. Every one to himself is
the centre and pivot of all the world.”
Another great line occurs in reference to the rather
cowardly Mr. Gibson, who is continually at the mercy of a variety of strong
women. After a particularly bad “foot-in-mouth” moment, Trollope opines, “But
there are men so awkward that it seems to be their especial province to say
always the very worst thing at the very worst moment.”
I also liked his explanation of benign government
incompetence. Sir Marmaduke is the governor of some Asian islands, and he is
recalled to explain his policies for some useless government committee. His
explanation is amusingly accurate, “It had worked well; - that is to say,
everybody had complained of it, but he, Sir Marmaduke, would not recommend any
change.”
Despite all of the wit, and despite the happy ending for
many of the characters, the story of Emily and Louis is a devastating tragedy.
Louis Trevelyan at Casalunga. One of many excellent illustrations by Marcus Stone in the edition I own.
I think that Trollope was at the height of his powers in his
analysis of the situation. The rift is devastating precisely because it was
avoidable. Had either Louis or Emily made a different step, at least during the
first few months of the feud, reconciliation was likely. Trollope is too good
of a writer to come out and directly state the reason why the parties could not
understand each other, but the point cannot be missed: Louis and Emily cannot
express what they truly desire of the other. Instead, they make demands based
on the conventional gender roles of their time, and never take the time to hear
and understand the other.
Louis says that he wants obedience. Emily is willing to
obey. But, really, what Louis wants is to know that Emily cares about his
feelings and insecurities, and will voluntarily avoid hurting him. It pains him
to demand obedience, where love should have attained the same result.
In contrast, Emily desires to be treated like an adult. She
wants to be trusted, and not treated like an errant child for innocent
behavior. And really, any wrong that has occurred has been on the part of
Colonel Osborn (who is really slimy), not on Emily’s part.
Trollope makes it clear that if Louis had simply expressed
his feelings and fears, Emily would have seen his point. Likewise, if Emily had
simply validated Louis insecurities, he would not have demanded obedience in a
high-handed manner.
If either had given a millimeter, the whole tragedy could
have been avoided.
This is one area in which I think that certain religious
movements have gone astray in focusing on some form of “submission,” by which
they often mean, “obedience.” A decent man does not want a servant to do his
bidding. A decent man wants to know that his wife values his feelings and
desires. In a loving relationship, each party should care enough about the
other to avoid causing pain to the other. Louis and Emily cannot and will not
see this until it is too late. Eventually, it becomes more important to each
that he or she be RIGHT, and that the other admit it, than that the marriage
ever be put back together.
Louis himself eventually begins to subconsciously hope that his
fears may be true. That is, he would be happier to find out that Emily had been
unfaithful than that he had been unreasonably jealous. It is this pride and
stubbornness that tears the relationship apart. The love that they once had for
each other is slowly destroyed, until all that is left is pride and despair.